Hiding away!!!!

Hi Jane I know how you are feeling I get days like that and then you get better days we all feel like it sometimes but you do get good days huge hugs xxxx

Thank you popgate. I’m glad I’m not alone. I feel like a freak some days as don’t know whether I’m coming or going. I’m used to being such an organised person, but this has thrown me sideways. 
Roll on the good days, I do get them sometimes, waiting for scan results at mo, isn’t helping. Plus twinges and pains in pelvis. 
Anyway I’ll stop complaining, thanks again 

Jane xx

Popgate is right Jane, good days and bad days, it is as simple as that.

In fact next time you are with company and you feel like that, tell them you get good days and bad days and just now you are experiencing a bad day. They can look at you with their mouths open or tell you they have just learned something useful.

You are not alone, plenty of us are having bad days as we speak. Go out if you want, stay in if you want, answer to no one but yourself.

In fact I have just had a post removed and it has turned my day into a bad day. Not like yours but it has left me unhappy.

You are strong, you are not hiding away, it takes a bit of strength to open up on here, keep doing it. Xxx

Thank you Norberry, your words always help. 
I just said ‘I’m having a moment’. My family were great, I just felt silly. 
I try to do what I want but feel guilty that I should be seeing someone for coffee, I’m a massive worrier, guilty person. 

Why did you have a post removed, I’ve not seen any offensive posts from you?

Thank you. Yes it does, I’m quite a private person and hate being a drama queen 

xxx 

Hi Jane 

you are definitely not alone. It’s less painful not to meet up a lot of the time. But hopefully your family and friends understand how difficult it can be and that you will  be able to see them on days when you feel able to. 
best wishes 

Nigel xx

You are entitled to cry as much as you want. Once you get used to thinking you are being silly then you will see that there's no harm done.tgen you can do that laughing and crying thing, almost fun.

No one wants to swap places with you nor indeed with any of us so stop feeling guilty.

You will never see an offensive post from me. I made a joke about women spending too much time in front of the mirror. Cancelled, as this will be when it has been run past the censor.

I but so what, don't care about me, I care about you.

We are all going to get you through and out of the other side. 

Hi Nigel 

Thank you. Yes I think they all understand, some more than others I think. 
Exactly, I’m so up and down, I change my mind more than the weather.

Best wishes to you too 

xx

And I certainly do.  

Yes I do usually cry, then laugh a bit, if at my parents house. 
Ah ok,  

Thank you

  xx

It is normal to cry.

Hard to keep up being. Needful for 4 hours that is a long time to visit others. I would be tired after an hour xx

It’s hard not to sometimes 

Thank you 

I think I put too much pressure on myself and expect to be the same as I was before, everyone expects me too, as I look fine. 
Thank you xx