A new thread for crazy maniacs who may wish to post something different.

FormerMember
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Now this is likeThe Room but no swearing allowed. You can say what you want and there will be no autodirection to the Naughty Step. SiT sold that off for redevelopment anyway.

I will give an example of the type of thing expected ... I have just eaten three doughnuts and had two cigars, you will know if you wish to post by whether or not you find that interesting or relevant. I do intend to have more doughnuts later.

I think as I approach my prognosis date my posts may well become more disjointed and very hard to make any sense of. I expect forum members to say they have always found this to be the case!

  • I've gone all out, told close family first then set up a messenger group to keep close family and friends updated and then went on facebook and did regular health updates most took it well just a couple that messaged and said I think you should keep that kind of personal info private. I told them it was my info and i would tell who ever I wanted, one unfriended my was said fair enough


    Richard

    be safe, be nice, be you 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Remoh

    Wow, they unfriended you?  Or you unfriended them? If they unfriended you then they didn’t deserve you as a friend and they just showed their true colours.  I find that so bazaar.

  • Yes i think we all lost some "friends" ...and i think most people just don't know what to say to us...

  • Yes i think we all lost some "friends" ...and i think most people just don't know what to say to us...

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Pet1968

    It’s so sad that people just don’t know what to say in difficult times. Even ‘I don’t know what to say’ would be better than nothing. One of my cousins who’s always going about family & how close we are mentioned me in a FB post about Inspirational Women this week, but she hadn’t even sent a text message, nor a single word about me being in a wheelchair. Another dear friend who’s been with me through thick & thin & vice versa has disappeared after saying’ you’ll be fine, you always are’ I agree,  my circle of close fiends has got smaller & there’s been some surprising & at times hurtful losses, but there’s been some lovely gains too. 
    xx

  • I am shocked that friends would criticise you for sharing your news. It is definitely your information and your choice.

    I chose not to share on social media but am glad to chat here x

    Ruth 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Write out 100 lines .... I must not be saucy to the mods. Do you know I find being careful on here more wearing than chemo and as we all know, thats saying something.

    I am currently out on parole, I find a thread to me this morning, I take a look, pleased to have a friend, and guess what, it has been moderated and is under review! I wasn't even present!

    I was better off with my ankle tag!

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the Tag WILL be back... Just sayin' Norbs...

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    It was one of your replies that have disappeared. Before you start on me, remember Caeser's wife.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hahahaha... What... Brutus???

    Anyway - never met her... I remember Caesars Palace tho' - won a bundle then lost it all again... Hey Ho

    FFS!!! ANOTHER one for the official Naughty Step... Frankly I'm not surprised!!!