Hi, I'm Geoff, I've recently been diagnosed and I am in for a op on 1st April. I've had the Stoma siting and its quickly becoming VERY REAL. I look forward to using this site to get some advice and to help me along the way. I'm not great with technology and I don't usually partake in blogs etc. but I am sure that I will find your advice invaluable. Please bear with me if I don't get posts in the right place or fail to reply, it will take me a while to get to grips with doing this. Cheers Geoff
. Hi Geoff and a warm welcome to the board from me. Yes it’s a flurry of scan and meetings once the ball starts rolling but not long until you can get this tumour chucked in the bin. I’m sure you’ll find lots of help and support both on here and the bowel (colon and rectal) board. Don’t worry about getting posts in the right place or replying - theres no special etiquette on here. There is also nothing too daft or embarrassing to ask or talk about - as you can imagine poo talk features quite strongly with this Cancer!
If you want to have a look at people’s profiles then you can just click on their name and if you want to tag somebody in ie. draw their attention to a post then put a @ followed by their name ( no space) like I’ve done with yours and they should get an email to say that you’ve mentioned them?
Your stoma nurses will be your best friend in the early days but there’s lots of information on here in previous posts if you type a keyword in the search box where the magnifying glass is at the top of the page.
A stoma can seem a little daunting at first, especially in the early days, but things will quickly settle down and you’ll get into a routine and then carry on with life as before
Hope the op goes well - please keep us posted
Take care
Karen x
Thanks Kareno62, I've just spoken to colorectal nurses, we are still not sure which defunctioning I'm having, but she did say the plan so far is, defunctioning stoma on 1st, I'll be in for a week, once settled down, meet oncologist to arrange radiotherapy and or chemotherapy, then eventually remove cancer. That's also dependent upon the liver investigation. I stupidly thought they were operating on my tumour at the same time as defunctioning stoma. Doh.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
© Macmillan Cancer Support 2025 © Macmillan Cancer Support, registered charity in England and Wales (261017), Scotland (SC039907) and the Isle of Man (604). Also operating in Northern Ireland. A company limited by guarantee, registered in England and Wales company number 2400969. Isle of Man company number 4694F. Registered office: 3rd Floor, Bronze Building, The Forge, 105 Sumner Street, London, SE1 9HZ. VAT no: 668265007