Hi , I’m new to this site but wanted to share my experience of living with oesophageal cancer. I realise that I’m one of the lucky ones in that my cancer was caught relatively early and was therefore operable.
I was diagnosed with cancer of the oesophagus in February 2007 and after many tests and two sessions of chemotherapy I underwent an Ivor Lewis operation, which is major surgery to remove the cancer, and lasted around seven hours. I responded well throughout and remained only five days in intensive care before being moved to a general ward and released a week later.
Since then, I’ve continued to do well but suffer from dumping syndrome as a result of the surgery. This is an unpleasant side-effect that causes fatigue, sweating and nausea after eating. Also, I now have to have vitamin B12 injections every three months as my body can no longer process this essential vitamin.
All in all, I feel ok and have remained positive all the way through. I realise I’m extremely lucky and count my blessings every day.
I’ve read so many negative reports about this type of cancer so I felt I had to share something positive for those of you who have, or know someone with, Oesophageal cancer.
All the best
Crystal
Hi Netty and Crystal and all others out there in that wonderful world of ours,
Sounds like you have the right idea Netty, go for that holiday as they say a change is as good as a rest and you should get both .
Sorry to hear of your post chemo woes, trust Crystals comments will help.I opted out of post chemo as I had lost so much weight and now have suspicious thickening of the bowel and awaiting (still) an urgent colonoscopy. Saw surgeon on friday and he didn't beat around the bush and prepared us for a secondary cancer as he (and I) can feel the lump. But what do doctors know? (see last line of my profile) It may just be something stuck there wouldn't be surprised with all the gurgling which goes on there!!
Any way we really enjoyed our two week holiday it was the best thing we could have done - we are still talking about it even though we have been there many times before. Go for it .
More good news is that I have put on a kilo in the last 4 days - now up to 60.2!!! So almost ready to make more hay. I can hear Sharon chuckling in the back ground.
Take care out there you lot.
Cheers Ben.
((((Ben))))
Always thinking about you and so I’m happy to see you here. It’s unbelievable though that you’re still awaiting an urgent colonoscopy and I hope by the time you read this that you will have had it and that it’s not what you feared. Your last line of your profile is right, ‘Doctors don’t decide how long you live –you do.’ Stay as positive as you can be Ben. If it is secondary as the surgeon has warned it might be, then I know you can get through this too, I know you can.
Having just looked at your profile for the first time in ages, I see you’ve posted a lovely photo. Now I’m inclined to run away to NZ as you look so handsome. Is that the dog with ‘dogability’? Trixie? I’d definitely say that dog knows it’s own mind judging by the look on his face. Lovely pic. I’ve got a kitten-cat with plenty of ‘cattitude’ who likes to go frogging in next doors pond. Do you know, that if you have four frogs in your house it’s very difficult to catch them? Well, it is.
Ben, do come back and tell us how you’re doing. I’m keeping my fingers crossed and hoping against hope that all will be well. Hugs to you and Sharon.
Love Crystal xx
Hi to everyone – hope all is well with you and today is sunny where you are xx
Hi Netty,
I am so glad you are getting your life back on track, I fully understand how you feel, but you will get days when you think you are going backwards, this is normal, and as time goes on these days will get less. Enjoy your well earned holiday, but please don’t overdo it, drink plenty of water on the plane as the cabin pressure can make you dehydrated.
Hi Crystal,
I hope you are taking good care of yourself and managing to keep your energy levels up, are you thinking about taking a holiday yourself? I thought we were going to have a good summer this year, what a ruddy wash out.
Hi Ben,
We haven’t spoken before, I am sorry you are having problems at this time, you have a good outlook on life, my friends dad had kidney cancer 20 years ago and his motto was if you think fit you will be fit and is still around today, saying that it is sometimes hard to be strong all the time especially when you are suffering with pain, but we all sometimes have days like that. You live in a nice part of the world, only ever passed through on my way to LA after visiting my mother in Australia, always wanted to have a proper visit, and just may get around to it one day.
I wish you well with your ongoing investigations.
Nothing much to report from my end except that I am waiting to see the consultant about my plumbing which is still playing me up. The good news is we are off to Center Parks in Cambria for a week, taking the cycles with us so to get a little gentle exercise will be a good thing, what I like about self catering is I can eat what I want when I want which takes the stress of finding things I can keep down. I went out to give the car a full service before we go; it is a good job I did because I noticed the drive belt and engine mount would not have held up to the journey. Fingers crossed the new engine mounting is delivered tomorrow so I can fit it and then we can be on our way. I can’t wait to get there as it’s the first time away since my diagnosis.
To everyone else looking in, I hope life is giving you a fair to good time.
Hi Ben
It’s totally unthinkable that the medics are keeping you waiting like this, and it’s all down to their own administrative errors and mismanagement of their ‘system’. In the meantime you have the added stress of chasing them up as well as worrying about the results. It makes me angry on your behalf! It’s a good job you have a lovely disposition and are still able to go out and enjoy everything about your day. By the time you read this message I’m sincerely hoping that you’ve had good news from them.
Yes, I can see Tabatha there in your photo, and is that your national NZ flag flying from your rooftop? Hope you had a good trip to the Tall Poppy restaurant, maybe trip isn’t the right word in this case Lol. How’s your diet and eating these days?
One more thing, I fully agree with you, and have often thought so myself, that Bad Year should change his name to something a little more positive. I don’t even like writing that word Lol. Take good care Ben and let us know how you get on. Xx
Hi Bad Year
Maybe you could call yourself Not Such a BadYear. Or maybe Quite a Good Year Really Lol, or something else, with Bad Year in brackets until we all get used to your new name? Anyway, I hope you have a lovely holiday and the weather picks up for you. It will do you good to be in the countryside riding bikes, it’s something I love to do too. Have fun.
Hi to everyone looking in, hope your day is a good one.
Love Crystal xx
Gidday Crystal,
The lunch was lovely thanks - freshly caught snapper in beer batter with delicious salad and crisp fries,so that answers the question on diet -- I can eat just about anything but little and often and some of it doesn't stay around too long so the weight is still at the 60kg mark
I must have been drifting when I said we are enjoying pre autumn weather -- what I meant was pre SPRING! we even have a daffodil in bloom.
Yes that is our national flag flying from our balcony. Still has the union jack in the corner to remind us of our colonial beginnings.
Thanks for your comments on the delays in the system makes me mad too, but I try not to waste too much time getting mad at anything these days - it only uses up energy which I don't have a huge supply of. But it does make you wonder if those responsible have ever had to go through the agonising waiting time themselves. The most understanding staff in my experience are those in the chemo and oncology areas - they seem to have more empathy than the specialists.
Anyway it's time to turn in after another wonderful day.
Hi there good year,
Looks like I started something - sorry about that, but I couldn't help myself! Considering the relatively short time since your surgery you are going great guns. Goodyear sounds great to me (with racing slicks by the sounds of things) Trust the car got sorted OK.
Cheers Ben
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