BOB JK My diary of kidney cancer (to be continued)

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Hi, My name is Bob and I live in Cambridgeshire. I am married with an 8 yr old daughter and three older step sons. Up untill the end of last year everything was tickety boo having recently moved to a new house which we love. Work was busy but enjoyable. I am Manager of an electrical companys maintenance department and my Wife, Linda was enjoying her job as a Nurse. The three boys are buying there own house nearby and all work locally.
In November I went to my Doctors with a small "cyst" on my chest. After a couple of referals and many Xrays, pet scans, bone scans and CT scans I was told the news everybody dreads. My lump on the chest was a secondary cancer of which the primary was in my left Kidney. I was fast tracked to the Royal Brompton, under the expert care of Mr Laddas who informed a long and complicated operation would need to be carried out to remove the bone tumor and surrounding bone which involved two ribs,my collar bone and chest bone. I did not have time to panic, the operation was carried out the next day over 10 hrs. After nearly two weeks in the Brompton I am recovering well from this op but I have since been told that the Cancer is in both kidneys as well as small mets in both lungs. It seems at the moment further ops are out the question and i have been put on the drug Sutent. I am one week into this and so far so good. I do not know what the future holds but I have to remain positive.
  • Sir Bob, so sorry to have read about Lady Linda's Dad, I really hope he improves. What a worry for you all.....my love and hugs to all of you, as ever

    Moomy

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    Thanks for the messages

    Just had a call to say they have had to take him straight  for surgery as his condition has deteriorated.  

    Fingers, toes and everything crossed that my lovely Dad is going to be okay.

     

    Love Linda x x 

  • Will do that for you, Linda......love, sympathy and hugs

    Moomy

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    Dear Linda, sorry to hear about your dad, will keep everything crossed with you that he will be OK. You and your lovely family are always in my prayers.
    My love and (((((HUGS))))
    Quill xxxx

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    Surgery done, they found and removed 30cm of malignant tumour from bowel, they did manage to remove all of it so that's good. Dad quite poorly so now its just wait and see time, fingers and toes remain crossed.  

    Bob doing okay this morning, slept on and off all night and energy levels are quite good. 

    As usual Bob is being my brilliant rock. 

     

    LInda x x 

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    Dear linda

    Hope dad makes a full recovery. Thinking of you all.

     

    Sue xx

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    Dear Linda

    Sending much love and strength to your dad, hope he makes a full recovery.  And lots of love to you and yours, (including of course Sir Bob!)

    Leah

    xxx

  • Dear Linda, sending love, hugs and healing vibes to you all, hopeful for good news for you all too (my bruv had a chunk of bowel removed a few years back, doing really well now, been clear ever since without further treatment!)

    Moomy

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    Dear Linda,

    Sending lots of love and best wishes. I hope your Dad makes a full recovery, I'm so glad they think they got it all. You have a lot on your plate at the moment I am glad you managed to have your night away before this latest event. Sending lots of love to Kate too, must be awful having both your dad and Grandad poorly........hopefully she still has lots of chocolate left to cheer her up.

    DI (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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    Dear Linda,

    So sorry about your dear dad love, at least they have managed to remove all of the tumour. Hope by now your dad is feeling just a little better, and recovers well from his operation.

    ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs to you both))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Bob hope you are also a little stronger today, bless you both and little Kate, and of course the rest of your family.

    Love Maryxxxxx