We Talk Brain Tumours

Pam, I agree with Pete.  Ask for and accept help, you will come to realise how much you need it, even tho no you probably don't think you do.  Tony is in a strange place at present, he wont understand and you have absolutely no chance.  I hope you have chance to have some laughs tomorrow and to make some happy memories.  Last year we knew it was our last Christmas and we truely enjoyed it, I have lots of happy memories that i can treasure.  I hope you get the opportunity to make similar memories

Merry Christmas everyone xxxx

A peaceful and hopefully peaceful Christmas to all.

The same from me.

Have as lovely a day as is possible. XXXX

A Peaceful christmas to you all.My Dad and I have had a sprout free xmas..we had a chinese meal.Bought it yesterday.I dislike sprouts anyway.HUGS xxxxxxxxx

Good evening my friends.

Managed to survive my first Christmas without Doreen since 1965! I think the day's been long enough now, and am retiring for the night. Goodnight to you all. Martyn XXXX

I too have survived my first Christmas, with a small amount of help from Mssrs Moet et Chandon.

A glass has been raised to each of my fellow travellers here.

evening all merry christmas... not posted for a while, but have been reading posts. love to all needing a hug tonght , hoping you are remembering happy memories of christmas' gone by. We have stored a new christmas memory for 2011 Hubby brought me a ring i know cos i was there in the jewellers. He put it up for safekeeping brain tumour strikes again he cant remember where he put it!!! Guess it will turn up one day christmas hugs Andrea and Mahmoud xx

Merry Christmas to all u wonderful people, having a very very tough time but just wanted to let u all know i am silently here Julie xxxx

Just got back from visiting my dad, he is deteriorating rapidly (Altzheimers not cancer) and not expected to live much longer.  Its hard to believe that in under 6 months I will have lost both my husband and my dad.  Knowing they are better off no longer suffering doenst seem to be helping at present

Jxx

So sorry to hear that news, Joanna.  Just not fair to be going through this.

After thinking that I'd gone through Christmas day ok yesterday, the evening was pretty tough.  I just started feeling very lonely - I could have gone around to some local friends, but that wouldn't really have done anything for me.

Still, off to the shops tomorrow and away to the in-laws for the next few days.  Hopefully that will distract me for a while.