My wife was diagnosed with bowel cancer and ovarian cancer and they removed her womb and part of her colon. Lived with stoma and had chemo till an all clear. Then at the start of last year, scan showed peritoneal metastases and had a massive operation that again seemed successful. Chemo and regular scans have shown anther lump in her abdomen that's neither growing nor shrinking but those on her lungs have gone. They're keeping an eye on that one with three monthly scans. She's scared and unhappy and I can't seem to help or feel what she thinks I should. So we're getting further apart where I'm afraid to speak, when she needs me most.
