Last week my mum was unexpectedly diagnosed with advanced cancer and since then has rapidly deteriorated - really weak and out of it most of the time. Today I helped her have a shower which was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done. I’ve been juggling work, my own family, and hospital visits and to be honest, I’m emotionally done in. My siblings have been brilliant as well but in a similar state. Any advice on coping mechanisms? (plus I feel so selfish thinking about myself!)
