What a Christmas

FormerMember
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My partner was having back / side pain for a few months (numerous visits to GP, blood tests, XRays etc) - very bad last Sunday - ambulance to A & E - various tests.

It seems he has lung cancer with secondaries in brain & spine.  Diagnosis given Christmas Eve.  Prognosis 2 months - 2 years.

Home now - waiting for lung nurse / Macmillan / GP to get in touch, but everything presumably slowed down until New Year.

Broncoscopy expected @ 2 January.

Am feeling overwhelmed.

  • Hi , sorry to read your story and well understand the problems of being ill over Christmas when it seems everything has gone in to slow motion. 

    Slightly surprised that anyone gave a prognosis without the full information, there are of course lots of people on the community who have outlived even a quite specific prognosis.

    What might help you is to look at our pages on I'm looking after someone with cancer, particularly the emotional effects and takes things one step at a time.

    <<hugs>>

    Steve

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    FormerMember in reply to src60

    Hi - Apparently once the words "cancer & we can't cure it" was said, my partner pushed the consultant on numerous occasions for a prognosis on the timescale.

    Hopefully once tests done & treatment plan decided, things may look a little less bleak,