The diagnosis won’t sink in.

Hi, this is a perfectly normal reaction. You've both had a big shock.

Do you have any support from other family or friends

If not,all the more reason I'm glad you found your way to this site. When you feel up to it,do put a bit in your profile n  join the relevant cancer type group for your mum's cancer then you'll get even more support from folk with similar experience to  your mum's.

Just seen the Highlander,'s detailed response. That's what comes of reading posts backwards!

buttercup01

Hello and thank you so much for your reply to my thread. Really meant a lot and knowing my reactions are normal. When I joined yesterday Thehighlander was very helpful and packed so much info and advice  to his replies so looked for groups to join and joined 2 so far. 

I think I’ve already put some in the profile but will add to it as time goes on.