My hubby is in his 4th yr of having bladder cancer, he currently has 3 more tumours and is waiting for surgery that has been pushed back twice from march. He had his pre op last week but now waiting for surgery is playing on his mind. He doesn't sleep and his blood pressure fluctuates. The time scale has been the worse this time
Hello and welcome to the community, although sorry to hear your hubby has had recurrences with his bladder cancer. I am from the bladder group and know how frustrating it is to have procedures pushed back. The waiting can be very stressful and impacts on the whole family and not just the patient. You may like to come and join us in the bladder group where a lot of us will be familiar with the processes. Click the highlighted link to get to the group and if you have any questions about treatment, there will be someone with experience of it. Best wishes.
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