Gardening as therapy for terminal prognosis.

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Hi everyone.

Apart from enjoying writing poetry, I love my garden, though I'm no expert. I like to get out on my small plot while I am still fit enough as my cervical cancer is now incurable. I am 80 so have slowed down a bit regardless of the cancer, but still fit enough to plant things and do a bit of weeding and hopefully mow the grass on a good day.

My garden was very neglected last year due to having numerous scans and tests at my local hospital to be diagnosed and then having chemo and radiotherapy for 5 weeks at Addenbrookes, plus brachytherapy which meant a short stay in hospital there..I had unpleasant side effects from the latter so could hardly leave my bungalow as needed the loo urgently every few minutes which was exhausting. I am just starting to get my enthusiasm back despite the terminal prognosis. I enjoy sitting outside when it's not too hot, listening to the birds singing, after an hour or two of light gardening. I find it very therapeutic, always have, but even more so now.

I've recently planted up a little 'hot' bed with colourful helenium, echinacea and coreopsis plus some contrasting blue ground cover campanulas.

Another trip to the nursery for some grasses to fill some more gaps  methinks!.

  • It is all a worry.I think a lot of us face the dilemma of going without food or heat in the coming months.I live on a hill so the garden is steep at the top with lots of terraces.Mum and I made a few more to make the walk up more manageable.There are seats throughout the garden so you get a different atmosphere on each level and somewhere to rest.Love Jane x

  • A view of poppies from 2017.This section of the garden is a bit flatter.Jane x

  • The first of the tame robins.This one answered to baby.It had a deformed claw all it’s life but managed very well.It was my faithful companion for 3 years.Jane x

  • Thanks for the pics Jane. I was sitting in my back garden the other day when a Robin perched onthe  bird bath inches away from me. Too late to reach for my mobile to take a snap, he was gone in a flash.

  • What a great photo Jane.  Robins always visit me when I'm digging over a section of my alottment plot.

    I don't feel I would have got through this last year if I hadn't had my alottment. Only two mins walk away and full of interesting characters plus it's a private one so no silly council rules to deal with.  I have a flower garden there too as I'm in a flat so no garden, I live on the edge of an island in full force SW winds so plenty can't be grown. It's been a lifeline during lockdown too. X

  •  Thank you.This was another robin who didn’t mind having its photo taken.I’m happy to hear that you have a plot to tend.I still enjoy gardening but digging has become difficult due to severe arthritis.I created a small seating area right at the bottom of the garden and love to sit quietly and listen to the birds.It became important during lockdown when I was alone recovering from surgery.Love Jane x

  • What a beautiful photo.  Full of colour, light and hope Heart️

    Skaro  

  • Hello lovely, how has your house move gone?  All settled in yet? 

    Take care xx

  • Hi,How are you ? I’m about to put the house on the market.The last of the items went to auction today.It’s taken nearly a year and half to get to this stage with so many setbacks.No idea where I’m moving yet either,depends on how much I can sell house for.Fingers crossed it sells.Love Jane xxxx

  • Jane it can take a long time to get to the selling point for sure hon. 

    Are you staying in the same area?  

    1. My alottment is taking up all my time right now. My broad beans are the tallest they've ever been with blackfly of course!  Many things are in the growing stage still- squashes, courgettes, patty pans, flowers (lots), french beans, red cabbage, white cabbage and cauliflowers. Peas are getting tall too. I've made a very Heath Robinson fruit cage so my raspberries, blackcurrants and strawberries stay safe for my mouth from the birds!  I've acquired four roses from a neighbor who was digging up everything in his new garden and two of them are flowering- pink one and my original roses I found in a skip. I've made confetti from all my flower petals over four years too. I've even got huge pink poppies,irises and Portland gladioli by our flat washing lines. I live right on the edge of the west side of the island so nothing but a field between me and the sea( no access though only steep cliffs).  I'll get some photos taken to put up.  Fingers crossed you find the perfect house and garden Jane, love Lucy xx