Hi
I have recently started having Docetaxel treatment and have started to loose my hair. I am really struggling emotionally with loosing it and just don’t know what to do. I feel so stupid and selfish as I know people are in worse situations. I have bought wigs and various other headwear but I just cannot get used to how they look. It is getting me so down that I don’t know if I want to carry on with treatment, it is constantly on my mind. I feel guilty as I have a husband 27 year old son and a 21 year old daughter who all want me to fight this cancer even though I know it is stage 4 incurable.
wishing you all well.
Hi Rameses. Sorry for not replying sooner, I hope you are coming to terms with the hair loss. Personally I think it must be be just as hard for you blokes as it is for us women. I still have days where I am all over the place and it messes with your head. I
I have joined a few cancer support groups near where I live and I find this has helped massively. Talking to people in the same boat or just having complimentary treatments have made me feel soo much better. If you have a Maggies centre near you I would recommend popping in and seeing if there are any groups that you might find beneficial to how you are feeling.
Take care Rameses
Maxine
Thanks Max66
It hasn't gone yet but I've got my 2nd round of chemo today and that's apparently when it can start to thin out. I can tell it's gonna happen as my hair feels very dry and I know it has not grown as I used a clipper to keep it low anyway. Even the consultant yesterday said you've still got your hair then, but round 2 is coming up.
Its just another outward sign that I'm ill I guess. I think it's that more than my appearance I'm afraid of.
People are very kind when the see me trying to walk with my stick and that, holding doors open etc but then there's look of pity in there eyes that gets to me.
I have looked up Maggies and no, there's not one near. St Giles, the hospice team have a big facility quite near. I'm going to go and have a look around as they have complimentary therapy sessions and coffe mornings I believe.
Take care guys,
Rameses.
I’m sorry to hear how you’re feeling. I do understand this, I lost some of my hair during radiotherapy but did not lose all of it and I haven’t lost any through chemotherapy. Maybe talk to your oncologists, I did and I got a lot of support through the hospital as it was extremely traumatic for me even losing some hair and I knew some people lost all theirs so felt guilty about being upset
Max,
Come on. Does it really matter? The treatment absoloutly comes first.
You know I'm scared of losing mine too and yes it's very personal but I think ladies with short hair or even no hair, if they're happy to carry it off, look beautiful.
I'm sure you will too.
Don't overthink it, just be the new you.
Take care guys,
Rameses.
Hi Guys
ive had 2 rounds of Chemo now and I’ve still got my hair. I’m gobsmacked. I really thought I would lose it as it’s gone very brittle.
Anyway, I have decided if it does start to go I’m going to shave it full on Peaky Blinders style and take loads of photos for a laugh. I’m from Small Heath in Birmingham, so it seems appropriate plus I’ll never have a chance or the nerve to do it again.
What do you reckon?
Take care guys,
Rameses.
I didn’t get this but apparently that’s not normal ( i just got lucky)
I was told 99% feel at least a bit of soreness so it’s completely normal
Thanks Charlotte
I was getting a bit concerned. However I’m worrying about the slightest issue at the minute.
Sometime that’s all I need, thanks again.
Take care guys,
Rameses.
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