My mum has just started chemo for stomach cancer which is terminal.
They say she should have 2-3 years.
My question is how long should she feel/be sick after the chemo?
She has no energy either or appetite. Is this normal & if so does this wear off ?
I would like to help her through this along with my sister & dad but dad is struggling too as he is getting frustrated with her.
Can anyone give any advice?
Hi Chicken Pie and I see it’s your first post so a warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your mum.
Different types of chemo brings different side effects so talking with people who are on the exact same treatment can help a lot…… so can I recommend you look to join and post in our dedicated……
……. support group.
This group is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same support journey.
As for the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your mum and indeed yourself you may benefit from joining and posting in our……
Supporting someone with incurable cancer
……. support groups where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.
It is an emotional time supporting family so you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful as well as this link getting help with your emotions.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community
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