I posted this before. It is now worse. Last couple of days falls asleep when he sits down then awake most of the night. Tonight he snored for the first first couple of hours then vanished. Found him asleep on the chair. I'm not important enough, apparently, to make any effort for. He now says it is not a dirty look or huff it is realising that without me he would be floundering (his words not mine).
On his 9th folfox and pani tomorrow. This last week he won't eat and sleeps all day. When I mention food and the supplements he has been recommended I just get a dirty look and a huff.
Two more months minimum of this, its just getting worse. I try to be supportive and remember he is sick, it is just so hard.
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