Face mask for radiotherapy causing husband extreme anxiety - how can I help him?

Hi Saste, I'm Tony one of the Community Champions, I've been through the treatment for Voicebox/Throat Cancer however I only had a Laryngectomy and no follow on Radiotherapy, I was messured and had a mask fitted but I had tou admit I can understand your Hubby's fears as I was so relieved was able to refuse the RT

I suggest that you put this request onto the Head and Neck Forum as others will most definitely have gone through the treatment

 Head and neck cancer forum 

I wish you both all the best and please tell him it's going to be okay and hopefully successful,He should also keep reminding the Radiologists of his fears as he could have music playing in headsets or even a play

Take care, Tony

Hi Saste, sorry to hear that your husband is feeling that way.

It might be worthwhile practising at home, focusing on an object and then listing 'Ten of your favourite XXX'. Then you have to think about putting them in alphabetical order.

You can try that, or create a list together, so that 'you're both there'.

Another thing is 'the finger dance'. Touching your thumb to each of your fingers on one hand, then the other, then doing that backwards. During the scan, you need to stay very still, but if you get your arms and hands into a good position, you can do it without moving.

They can be done together for extra distraction.

I hope you find something. Keep looking after each other x