Hi Freida
Sorry to hear about your husband, going through radiotherapy can be quite challenging and we have a lot of information on that here.
As you note you are both still working you might like to talk to one of our work support service team as they may be able to help you both in talking to your employers
In terms of feeling up and down - well often people on here talk about being on a rollercoaster, certainly some days seem easier than others and perhaps the best we can do is appreciate what we have. I ended up doing a living with less stress course that really helped me.
<<hugs>>
Steve
