THE ORIGINAL GANG OF MUSHROOM ROPE BUILDERS (i.e Mel & Em's thread cont...)

Morning ALL<

Sam - you can get your 20 quid later!!!

Not going to be around much today, as I really have to kick myself up the ass and do some serious amount of work.

Mel - just want to send you big hugs. Cause you are a mushroom and I don't want you to stay in the dark. I think you are the sort of mushroom who grows more and becomes even more beautiful in the sunshine. So, sending plenty your way.

Em - you have been super quiet. Which means you are super struggling. Big hugs to you. You keep looking at your beautiful girls and wonderful hubby. Your dad is a happy man knowing that you, his little girl, is more than ok and loved.

Sam - or should I say Queen Molly Maid?!!! Put that feather duster down and get out the house. Go for a walk and clear the cobwebs from your mind. If I am honest I think I was numb until fairly recently with grief. So, I would say it is normal to feel pants. It becomes our normality, hich means we just get on with things. Just every so often there is a little shard of light that breaks through the numbness and that is when we must fight to keep that light shining brightly

Barbie - helloooo lady. Well, I think you need to rescue me, as I am going to be work like a donkey today and he rest of this week. My own fault for spending too much time here!! eeek!! So, get polishing that dyson and I still say it is too young to be put into retirement...now you prefer normal mode of transport...cars!! I saw a gorgeous old classic jag the other day....well I can dream!!

Nic - you have been super quite too. Not good m'lady. Sending you a big hug. Remember honey, we are here for you. Its amazing what we can still say when we feel we can't say anything. Don't hide away honey, cause I know you are not working that hard!! We are here for all the good and the bad, so let us erach out to you too

Kelsey, thatnks for the info on the transfer. Apparently as my printer is a laser, it won't work!! So, I am going to be writing names on my shirt and then claim I got a child to do it!! ha ha ha I hope this week brings you many good times and lots of hugs with your dad.

Cath - hellooooooo, I did see you popped back in, but as I am a cabbage I can't remember where you have been. Probably, being a good working and workig?!! Just wanted to say hellooooooo

Dawn - so glad you met up with Vince's daughter at the weekend. Thinking of you honey. I bet the closer it gets to the 27th, the more nervous and sad you are going to feel. I do hope though that you can celebrate Vince's life and all the good you shared together. Cause that is what is special. I bet there are dates from the last few years that were really joyous occassions but you haven't remembered them. Try and I bet you will have no choice but to smile

Jac - well honey, you know we are all here for you. When it gets tough, you get your ass here. I'm not asking. The reason we are all here is because of this illness. The reason we haven't gone mad, is cause we have each other to rely on. So, no going mad please!!

Lesley - how you doing?

Den - how are you and the bump getting along? Please remind me as I have a rubbish memory...when are you due? Oooo all exciting times. Big hug x

Donna - do you like the song...cotton eye Joe?? I do, it kinda gets your feet tapping without thinking, even though to be fair its a rubbish song!!!

SAM - hey honey, you been flitting aruond but not had much of a catch up. hope things your end are good. When can we get helping organise the wedding of 2009???

Has anyone heard how David is doing??

Well, I did circuits last night and I can still walk. Hoorah!!! I'm having a fresh juice (homemade) - my body is a temple you know - ok one of those ruins!! I just want to send you oodles of love and hugs. I think you are all SUPERB. Times are very tough and feelings are very raw at the moment. Go with them, just don't close your eyes to the good and don't stop fighting to remember the good in your life. Cause life is precious and you are all very precious to those around you. Something we tend to forget when feeling rather pants. Love and hugs Bern xx

Hi Bern

As usual you have such a good way with words. Yep im thinking of Vince with a smile of my face, i feel so much better this week, maybe because i have seen his daughter but i feel more on an even keel now, watch out world here i come! lol

Hope everyone has a good day, the sun is shining and i'm stuck at work (oh darn, or words similar to that lol)

Take care my friends Dawn xxxx

Hi Bern

As usual you have such a good way with words. Yep im thinking of Vince with a smile of my face, i feel so much better this week, maybe because i have seen his daughter but i feel more on an even keel now, watch out world here i come! lol

Hope everyone has a good day, the sun is shining and i'm stuck at work (oh darn, or words similar to that lol)

Take care my friends Dawn xxxx

Hi all

Nic - I was wondering where you had got to and how you were doing. There is no need to be worrying about supporting the rest of us at the moment, please keep posting and let us be here for you. I tried to get onto facebook earlier to accept you as a friend but couldn't get on so will try again later X

Kelsey - I'm glad to see you back as wondered where you had gone! Hope you manage to get your Dad out for the day next weekend X

Jac - It's good to see you posting a little again and sorry I wasn't around to offer any support last night. Big hugs Jac ((((((((((((((())))))))))))))) and what SAM Sam said is very true, you are not alone as you have so many friends here wanting to help X

Em - you are not feeling sorry for yourself hun, it is so understandable as this must be such a difficult time for you. Don't try and pull yourself together, just go with the flow as our Bern says and let us support you as much as we can X

Dawn - so glad you had a lovely day on Sunday with Vince's daughter and that you are feeling a little better this week X

Helen - you are amazing! Love you to bits mate X

Melly Mushroom - my friend, I missing your posts! Hope you are ok hun, thinking of you and sending loads of strength filled ((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))). I know it is so tough for you too hun, let us support you through this X

Bern - your wonderful words to everyone here, never cease to amaze me X

Wendy - thinking of you and little Will. Love to both of you X

Rochelle - you are in my thoughts too. We will all be here for you whenever you need X

Love to all including Michelle, Lesley, Den, Cath and anyone else I might have missed X