THE ORIGINAL GANG OF MUSHROOM ROPE BUILDERS (i.e Mel & Em's thread cont...)

Evening all my lovely friends.

Well as some of you may know, today was the day that Mum really wanted to live to see, as it would have been her Ruby wedding Anniversary.

When she was told she had terminal cancer "We cannot make you better" She didn't ask "Why Me?"

She didn't scream, cry or shout, she just nodded, smiled and said "ok, what happens next?"

So today I took part in a coffee morning, and raised £350. Aaron's work will match this, so a grand total of £700 (Carol Vorderman has nothing on me!!!!)

My friends came, they supported me, got me throught the morning, donated, shared stories, drank tea and coffee and munched cake, all things my Mum would have loved.

Rochelle came, She posed for a photo for the local paper, I bribed the reporter to put my name underneath because she is stunning. Rochelle and her hubby donated special prizes to the raffle, and her lovely Mum even helped her win a bottle of champagne.

She then said "Let's go up the cemetery together, I'll meet you there"

When I arrived there was the most beautiful bunch of Ruby coloured carnations, Mum's favorite flower, resting near Mum, and a stunning pink orchid plant waiting for me.

We talked, we cried, the sun shone, and I didn't feel alone in my pain. Sometimes it's easy to forget the difference that kindness can make. It's not just a thing for the moment, it's a gift that changes how you feel and how you act, as well as changing what the day holds for you.

When I logged on tonight I had all my lovely messages and thoughts from you all, and I've read through and witnessed all the kindness that you all so willingly share with each other. I am blessed to call you all my friends, and I am so proud to know such wonderful people.

Today was my Mum's Ruby Wedding Anniversary, and today all my friends kept me safe from the pain.

Love to you all

Mushroom X

So glad that you got through yesterday Mel and glad Rochelle was there to help you through and give you real hugs. I know it was the toughie day and as you told me when you get through the first of everything it gets a little easier. XXX

Well I did'nt post about my scan but I will just put a quick note I asked if the spleen is still enlarged and dr said yes but did'nt go into detail so I asked the nurse while having my infusion and she said if I have'nt heard anything by my next one she will get a dr to look at the report and go through it with me.

I have had a busy week and you will not believe me when I say we have done all the girls chistmas presents YES! you did hear me right. I think Tony is worried I won't cope if it left so I am one releived lady as the biggest most stressful bit is out the way and although I still have that ache that dad won't be with us it does'nt fill me with complete dread this year.

I hope you can all have a nice weekend and remember we are that rope.

Love Emx

Hey all

Wanted to come on and post a little to each of u but alas not - yea i hear u all shouting no sleeping message from the doll - i will do so later if i be me later - but can u believe this was on page 2 - what is going on!!!!!

I guess lots going on for all so am sending loads and loads of big fat squeeshy hugs to you all.

Will come back later to chat i promise

Lots of love

Meeeeeeeeeee - ooooooo lots of letters yyyyyyyy

xx

Glad to see so many posting again....if my head wasn't so fuzzy at present I'd leave a longer message but hey ho.......hope all doing well...reading posts....mel and ems keep strong!

opps another promise broken - fell asleep on sofa and when woke was 2 tired to write long messages.

Just wanted to send big love to all and wish you all a happy restfull sunday.

Big fat squeeshy ones

The Doll

xx

Dear Friends,

Brave Jac needs us.

Let's do our thing.

Love

Melanie X

Thanks Mels....not feelin that brave!

Jac, you a special lady and I just want to send you my love. If I could take away some of your pain then You know I would. Instead, all I and everyone here have to offer is our love, our support and our belief that you will one day come out smiling in the sunshine again. XX

Mel, I read your post and goosebumps ran down my arms. Goosebumps because you're mum wanted so much to celebrate her Ruby wedding anniversary with her family, because you've been marvellous in raising a significant sum and because of the kindness and support you and Roch have shown each other. I'm so happy you have each other. What a beautiful gift that awaited you. That was so thoughtful Roch.

Bern - You're right, life's too short. You go for it!

Em - That is soooooooo organised! We wait with you for news of your results and will be willing you well again.

Jac - We're all here, ready and waiting to try to cheer you up, support you or just listen.

Sam - Hang on in there. The big day is Wednesday isn't it?

Barbie - Our lovely friend, never far away.

If I've missed someone - shout up so my memory can be exercised!

Visited dad yesterday. He looks gaunt as you'd expect with such a big weight loss. Apparently the stent isn't cut and dried they have to see if they are able to insert it. I'll follow all of your recent advice and not think about that until I have to and if I have to. Poor man could do with a rest from the sickness bless him. He must be exhausted.

Well I will go and watch X-Factor and bid you all goodnight. You're special people who have become a part of my life. I wonder if anyone could truly understand that you're not cyber buddies but my friends?
xxx