It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time right now and I can understand why you'd want your partner to have professional help.
It might be an idea to post this message in the carers only group, where I can see you've posted before, as you'll then connect directly to others who will have been in a similar situation to you.
Sending virtual ((hugs))
To start a new post in the carers group, you just do exactly the same as you did here, ie go to the carers group, select the '+New' button, give your post a title, post in the main body and then select post.
You can find step-by-step instructions here.
I hope that helps
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