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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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Hello Kenzie, I hope you have been able to sleep more peacefully after finding the wonderful crew on this forum. If you wish to join another cancer specific forum within the Macmillan umbrella, the options can be found by exploring the drop down menu at the head of the page under 'Forums.' Awake at Night is non-specific, a forum where almost anything is discussed in a friendly manner. It has helped me in the often long haul when cancer visits - I was diagnosed in mid 2017 (bladder) and have been on a palliative, symptom driven care regime since early 2019.
If you are early in the process of diagnosis, there are many on here who share the feelings of mental and physical stress which this insidious disease can cause, not least of which is the inability to get a good night's sleep. Clearly, I have not yet found the complete answer. In trying to distract myself from symptoms which developed mid afternoon, I have been watching random you tube subject matter. One of them which included clips from 'The Good Life' TV series had me laughing out loud but did not send me to sleep. Anyway, welcome from me and I hope we can help, interest or even amuse you with our posts. Best wishes, Ray (76: mental age around 40, physical age feels how I imagine it is to be 93 )
Thank-you. Now 03:36 and still wide awake. My husband has already come downstairs to see if I am okay. Big smile from me. “Yes. I am absolutely fine. I just can’t sleep”. That is true but I am not fine. Pressure from waiting on my TURBT in two weeks, from waiting on CT Scan results, has built up. I am not helping myself. I opened a bottle of red wine (I add water to it. Always have done) so it looks as if I haven’t had much. I have smoked 2 cigarettes. I am not helping myself so why should I expect miracles to happen. Tonight, this morning actually, I am a mess. I sill be okay tomorrow (today) when I will be back to my out of this world state, in a daze, but not the mess I am at the moment. Please know I am a positive person. I am not normally like this. This Forum has allowed me to pour out thoughts that I would never normally have or indeed share with friends and family. My apologies for my behaviour, drinking, smoking, rant. Please further know I feel better saying all this. No need to reply to me. Just needed to get it out.
Kenzie
Your thoughts will be our secret. No apology needed. You are indeed early in the diagnostic process. Waiting for results is the name of this unfortunate game. I lost my wife nearly 19 years ago and now live alone. I keep a bottle of red wine in the fridge - a cheap but rather nice Sicilian is giving me a swig a night if I choose, though today I skipped it, just gallons of water. I stopped smoking in 2010. I was always a light smoker (pipe) and am sometimes tempted even now. The cost of tobacco plus the nagging medics is enough to reinforce my resistance. Miracles can happen, so always keep your hope channels open. Ray xxx
Morning Linda There must be something in the water with a bunch of us awake at crackpot o' clock!
My excuse is only managing to sleep for around 2 hours before waking up again. I've been listening to YouTube for hours, but it's not that keeping me awake - I can't sleep in total silence either, so I'm in a crazed jumble of not being able to do one without the other. It's ludicrous and maybe I should see a shrink - or maybe not.
Anyway sweetie, I'm going to make another feeble attempt but I hope you manage to get some rest soon. Sending hugs xxx
Thanks Gill I’ve hardly slept at all which is unlike me lol. I decided to get up and do some baking so I’ve got 2 banana breads in the oven it was either that or carrying on tossing and turning. I hope you manage to get another couple of hours in! I’ll probably be out on the sofa by 11am.
Linda xxx
Hello Kenzie
Sorry that you have found yourself here. Best of luck with your surgery and any ongoing treatment.
I've had womb cancer and my treatment ended last May so I now have regular scans & checkups. I've been told that I am now cancer free.
If you're struggling with anything you can speak to the helpline, the number is at the bottom of the page. Also you can offload here.
I hope you got some sleep.
H
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