Awake and up all night

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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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  • Hello Gill, your warm weather sleepiness may be inconvenient but it is probably recharging your biological batteries. A duvet cover with an autumn leaf pattern may help you to sleep on the cooler nights.

    Yes, thanks, the soreness is easing more rapidly than I expected. Yesterday before my catheter change my bag took on a peculiar colour. Nothing extreme, but enough to cause me some concern. I mentioned it to the Urology nurse but she'd probably seen much worse every day, so just continued with the procedure. Removing the old catheter was very painful as usual for 3-5 seconds. The new one was fairly straightforward, just a flash of blood - I think medics call it trauma. Together with the soreness, these factors made me feel unusually depressed on the drive home. I fully expected to see a red bag on emptying at home but it was completely normal. I've also been surprised by how quickly the soreness has eased. This catheter is my 36th since late 2018 but I still can't predict how I'll feel. Same procedure every time yet the outcome varies considerably. My mood has swung from yesterday's depression to today's upbeat feelings. I was even considering a long pleasure drive to Wales. Nice thought. I'll settle for a walk around my garden to admire the weeds. They are a hardy lot! Ray x.   

  • Ouch Ray! To me, those procedures sound nasty but I imagine you're well used to them and know when to steel yourself. Great news that you're back in the swing! You really should rethink driving to Wales as there's nothing better than the sea for an instant uplift.

    The autumn leaves pattern for a quilt cover sounds interesting. We used to have one in green, but it's long gone now so I'll keep my eyes peeled on our next shopping expedition.

    Ray, if your weeds are hardy, I can hold intelligent conversations with ours, they're that big and ancient! I'm gonna have to get someone to sort them out as OH and myself are too knackered and ancient. They've had a massive growth spurt due to the flipping sun! Confounded

    Get your driving gloves aired off hon xxx

  • Well, I’ve had some very unexpected but very good news today which makes a lovely change.

    A message arrived from daughter number 2 with several photos attached-she and her fiancé got married last week and are on the last day of their honeymoon..in Gibraltar!!

    I knew they had gone to Spain on holiday and were doing a driving trip through southern Spain but had no idea of their other plans! She looked so beautiful I was in tears….happy tears. They’ve been together for years and I always thought they would marry but just thought it was taking a long time to happen. My new son in law is a lovely chap so I was beyond delighted for them.

    Hope everyone’s doing ok today and that your hubby is picking up a bit, Dingg. Hope your check up went well Helen and all is fine.

    Ray, we go though Stony Stratford often on our trips to family in MK, well, moved to Deanshanger now, but we love going through the nice little places on our trips to get there.

    I’m going to have a smiley face on all day now!

    Sarah xx


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  • I'll join you in that hibernation Gill. Woke at 3.30am and didn't get off again till about 9 so have been catching up. Am also just dropping off whenever and my window and curtains are open do I'm practically outside!! We can get up and out another day xx

      Ray your picnic sounds lovely. Enjoy that sunshine xx

  • Guzzinder your bed. Rofl

  • What lovely news Sarah congratulations on having a new son in law!

    Linda xxx

  • It's no mow May

     So you have an excuse for not doing anything.

  • Gill, I have captured a 'flavour' of my vegetation by taking an extremely amateurish photo using the Mac's camera. Of course, soon as I stepped outside I could not see the screen in the strong sunlight. My hands are far from steady as well. That's some of the excuses out in the open Grinning.  The photo does not do justice to  these lovely 'grannies bonnets.'  No doubt they'll have a proper name to those in the know. They popped up several years ago, and in my official position of 'Protector of Weeds' I have prevented my son's efforts to eradicate them ever since. He prefers very low maintenance gardens e.g. concrete, maybe painted green as a concession.  The back garden has been de-honeysuckled by him at my request. It was taking over and smothering everything. On my next expedition out back I may attempt a photo of the blossoming hawthorn tree.  Ray x  

  • That's lovely Sarah and congratulations to them bothWeddingCouple with heart. Thanks for sharing.

    That happy news will keep you smiling for ages!

    Julie xx