Awake and up all night

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Are you having trouble sleeping?

Sleep problems may be caused by how you’re feeling emotionally, or as part of the side effects for cancer treatment. If you find it hard to have a good sleep, you’re not alone. The Online Community is here to support you 24/7. 

“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
Community member, ‘Pancreatic cancer’ group

This discussion thread is for members who:

  • Have trouble sleeping and looking for somewhere to talk
  • Would like some company and support each other during the night
  • Share some things you do that helps you get to sleep

Be a part of the supportive Community in this discussion thread.

  • Hi Liseeyore

    Another warm welcome to the online community.  Sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with secondary breast cancer.

    Wishing you the best of luck with whatever comes next for you.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Hi Lizzie and welcome to our group, sweetheart Relaxed️ 

    Does the counting down work? I've heard of Headspace but don't know what it is, so I'll have a look too.

    Very recently I seem to have found a way to get my eyes drooping - after reading/watching shorts, I head to the comments section. It's not that they're boring but are repetitive, so after reading a couple of hundred my eyes feel like they're full of grit and I manage to get off to sleep. It's probably one of my silliest sleep remedies yet!

    Take care my lovely xxx

  • Hello Lizzie, some hypnosis routines use counting backwards from high numbers as part of a relaxation technique. The concentration also helps to squeeze other thoughts out. The 'What ifs' room in my brain is staffed by people who work with their door open, thereby interfering with other departments. Counting backwards distracts them, making them close their office door. I enjoy some of the mental imagery used by hypnotists, one of which paints an image of the brain being a corridor with numerous closed office doors. The master control room has a chap or chapess sitting in front of large dials and gauges which control anxiety levels. If you sneak in there during lunchbreak you can turn the levels down to a comfortable level. It sounds ridiculous but works for me. With reduced anxiety, sleep comes more easily. On the other hand, perhaps I need to see a shrink Upside down.  Ray xxx  

  • Joe is my name a devoted single dad who’s been courageously fighting cancer while doing everything i can to care for my child. Medical bills, travel for treatment, and everyday living costs are piling up, and I Joe can’t do this alone.

  • High Joe. Welcome to the group. First thing is that you are a hero coping with all this. Your children must be very proud of you m I don't know all the details but I am sure you should be able to get some support. Have you applied for PIP? Out resident egghead Brian ( gorgeous man ) may be able to advise on this.You've come to the best group with absolutely smashing, caring people in it( and cats and dogs). Any time you need to vent, moan or share your worries, get on here and rant m Sending you and your kids loads of love.

  • JoyJoy You've surpassed yourself with that one, my highly amusing friend! Great work Ray.

    Think I'll have to try that, but I reckon the entities in charge of my control room wear cloaks and sport horns and cloven hooves - I doubt they'll go out to eat.

    Your suggestion makes mine seem even more ridiculous now. Cheers, Ray xxx

  • What did Sonia sing - 'Better the devil you know 'Japanese ogre

  • I have not yet applied for anything yet 

  • Hello Joe ( 

    Another welcome to the group fro me although I am so sorry to find you joining us.

    To enable me to help you a little more you say 

    Medical bills,

    are you in the UK or another country, and which type of cancer are you fighting.

    Regardless of the above it sounds like you are doing a fantastic job.

    Best wishes - Brian.

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  • Hi JOEcancer

    Sorry to hear that you are fighting cancer.  If you feel up to it why not give the helpline a ring on 0808 808 0000 to talk to someone about your finances.  Here's the link to the benefits and financial support page on the Macmillan website: Benefits and financial support | Macmillan Cancer Support.

    Wishing you the best of luck with everything.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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