Hi … I’ve just joined … help please

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Hey! I’ve just joined as I cannot cope anymore with the waiting and worrying. My auntie died of breast cancer before she was 40! I’m 39. I’ve recently become very unwell with flu like symptoms and have found a solid uncomfortable lump in my breast. I am due to see the dr next Friday but it’s driving me insane waiting. I guess I just needed somewhere to vent. Sorry 

  • Time is always the most difficult part. Waiting for answers, wondering what if. 

    My take is just trying to live in the now (easier said than done right?!)

    The unknown is a scary place to be and yet nothing one can do about it.

    Fingers crossed all turns out well for you!

  • Hey lovely, I couldn't go past your post and not comment. How are you doing? What was the outcome of the appointment. I hope you've been referred to further investigations. It's worth remembering that medicine has gone leaps and bounds since your aunties time. I'm sorry she died so young. Even if it's breast cancer, your outlook is so much better. You're in really good hands!

  • Hello lovely this is the worst part waiting its so difficult very sorry your auntie passed away so young look im 41 and have been being treated for her2 breast cancer so even if its worst case the out look isn't the same as your aunties things have come on so so much lovely iv come so far and I promise you that you are stronger than you realise much love stay positive x