Coping with childcare and Cancer

FormerMember
FormerMember
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I am 30 years old and have two children aged 5 and 1. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in March. I also found out at the same time that I carry the BRCA gene. I have had a double mastectomy and immediate reconstruction from my tummy. I have healed really well and was pretty much back to normal when my chemotherapy started last week. I just wondered if there are any parents out there that are going through/been through this while having to sort out childcare? Myself, husband and children are all staying with my parents at the moment so we can get as much help with the children as possible. My husband is a chef so with his shifts he is not around as much as we need. How did others cope with the horrid chemo side effects and looking after children? We would really like to start going home at some point but I don’t think I could cope while my husband is at work! Any tips welcome! 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello

    I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you with 2 little ones to take care of. This group is really quiet so i would say try posting the same in The breast Cancer group more people go there so may be able to offer advice.

    Also give Macmillan a ring, they will know if there is any help available and if you would entitled to it,

    there phone lines are open 7 days a week, 8am-8pm 0808 808 00 00 

    Good Luck i hope you can get home soon xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thankyou Blush