Weekends

Hi Dru,

7 weeks is still very early, I'm only 13 weeks since I lost my big man, Andy. I hear what you are saying, weekends are hard, as are the evenings I find, so very long and too much thinking time

Not football for Andy but police chases and antique programmes - urgh! I can't watch anything like that now.

My Andy was eventually diagnosed in May 2022 but he was in much pain for 5 months before then and passed away 3 October 2022 - I had to do everything around the house as well as working full time and looking after our lovely rescue dogs & kitty (we didn't have children) back then being able to sit down for 5 minutes with a book would of been bliss - now having very long days on a weekend to read I actually don't want to. Same as you I would give anything to have him back watching the rubbish and running round like a loon until I dropped.

It must be hard for you having the girls to try and keep going for too but then a good distraction I guess.

Life is only cruel to the best people I've come to try and get my head round - so many evil people seem to just stroll along merrily.

I can't answer your questions I'm afraid, I too ask the same why my Andy at only 53???

Big hug to you xx

Hi

If only we could have old life back, I think it and say it every day, life's not fair. I would watch any of his rubbish just to have Rob back.

I also wonder why is it the good ones? Rob was 54. 

Love

Donna

If only eh! 

sorry you lost your Rob so young too x

I used to be a big believer in everything happens for a reason but I can’t get my head round a reason for this painful heartache, wouldn’t wish it in my worst enemy.

C x