I took down all the condolences card tonight it was tough ,when I go to bed I need to use my wife pillows to hug when I'm in bed to help me sleep is it natural to do that sort of thing
Hi Andrew,
Whatever you do it can never be wrong if it provides you some comfort. I actually do the same. Sharon’s cousin gave me for Xmas a cushion on which was my favourite photo of my one true love. Although many would consider it a bit of tat, for me it was the best gift ever, so now I can hold a memory of my darling Sharon every night as I sleep.
Best wishes and stay strong.
Paul
I had to go to her work today to take back her works phone and laptop and I had to go through her desk drawer to see if there was anything to bring home ,she worked for the NHS it was a bit difficult to thank God for one of her friends was there to help me
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