Loss of my wife

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I took down all the condolences card tonight it was tough ,when I go to bed I need to use my wife pillows to hug when  I'm in bed to help me sleep is it natural to do that sort of thing 

  • I am so sorry, keep yourself distracted.I know it's hard.

    Sending you hugs and love Ghaz 

  • Hi Andrew,

    Whatever you do it can never be wrong if it provides you some comfort. I actually do the same. Sharon’s cousin gave me for Xmas a cushion on which was my favourite photo of my one true love. Although many would consider it a bit of tat, for me it was the best gift ever, so now I can hold  a memory of my darling Sharon every night as I sleep.

    Best wishes and stay strong.

    Paul

  • I had to go to her work today to take back her works phone and laptop  and I had to go through her desk drawer to see if there was anything to bring home ,she worked for the NHS it was a bit difficult to thank God for one of her friends was there to help me