Just been told that Daves ashes are ready to collect and I don’t know how I am going to cope with knowing that is all that remains of him. It feels like it’s getting harder not easier. I’m crying more than I did initially - like now while sat in my office (thank god I don’t share with anyone ) We have a special place where I know I want to spread his ashes but I again I don’t know if I can cope in being in that place without him.
Has anyone else had to do this yet and is doing so, how ?
Heartbroken
Jillian
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