I have been reading through here but don't post as often as I used to...
Just to say you guys are a great bunch of people who deserve a big
Hi Martin
I have had a phone call and messages all morning. I have resisted so far!!! Lol
Alison xxx
Alison, do I have to wag my finger at you again?? it is always your decision at the end of the day but don't be used by him chick he's played with your emotions too much and you definitely don't deserve to be messed around. Have you contacted the 'other woman' he's playing you off? Do you know her? Does she know about you? Life is too short, we know that and happiness needs to grabbed with both hands but with full commitment, not shared with a third party when the mood takes.
Bug hugs Alison
I know Bootsy and Martin,
You are both right. I have been for a 6.5 km walk with Ann my friend from work and I am now on the gin. I haven't given in. I know he likes me but I can't be a part of a live triangle.
So squiffy on the gin instead! Lol
Love and hugs Alison xxx
Hey you...
You've got some guy all over the place over you, he's thinking of you!!
However my advice enjoy the anxiety, the anger, fear, joy and well "f**k my old boots" you're beginning to live and feel again!!!
But don't let him in as it could be more heartache, but go you.....
Hi Alison
I hope you have had a better day.
I have to agree with Bootsy and Martin, he doesn't deserve you if he's going to keep seeing someone else as well.
Maybe the "other woman" doesn't know about you or the way he's behaving ... and maybe its time she did!
Sending you a virtual hug!
Lizzy x
Hi All
She has dumped him. He is in my head butbinam staying away for now for him to decide. He is messaging and phoning me! Part of me says have some fun and part of me is thinking!!!
Bloody men!!!
I didn't even like him.atcall years ago! My children Barent keen but I think that would be anyone because they think I will let someone in my home! That will not happen
Love and hugs Alison xxx
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