I am recovering from lumpectomy and lymph node removal 10 days ago. Results appointment yesterday and Chemo will be starting in 5-6 weeks.
I feel completely overwhelmed.
I started a new (lovely) full time (Work from home) job in March and had to tell them I had cancer on my 3rd day! They have been lovely - but I am struggling to know how to tackle what is now coming - I was always hoping to avoid chemo.
How do 'reasonable' adjustment's translate into how you are paid/what I will earn? I am a lone parent and so it's all on me.
I love my job and I'm new to it - zoom meetings with no hair feel impossible to do, and I'm worried about fatigue v's concentration.
If I can only work part time - do I still get paid full time (irony for the hours I actually work)? It's a small company so I feel I will be taking the Micky but I need to pay the bills, support my children. I can't expect them to keep paying me full time salary if I'm off more than I'm able to contribute can I?
I don't even know where to start. Is even working during chemo - in a job that requires detail and concentration even viable - should I be facing being signed off and try and give myself the best chance of a speedy recovery?
I know there are no answers and every case is different. I don't even know the shape of my chemo plan for a couple of weeks until my appointment with oncology - but at the moment I don't even know how to shape an initial conversation with my employer following my results to leave as many options as open as possible... or what I should strive for?
Sorry I realise that's a big muddle... hope you can help me unravel this a little. Thank you.