This is a Cancer Website

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I have never posted a blog before, today I am because I am so outraged by what I have been reading in the blogs today. I am posting this in support of those of us who are sick to the back teeth of the actions of a thoughtless few who day after day continue to post Jokes (although most of them barely qualify as that they are so pathetic and crass). I am absolutely appalled at the behaviour of some people and their nastiness towards others here, and don't for a moment believe comments like 'get a life' when said in Cancer community, are 'innocent remarks' or acceptable, especially when they are directed at the terminally ill. When the Admins made a perfectly acceptable alternative place to post jokes, I had hoped that they would stay out the blogs, because they aren't the right place for them. As others have said, this isn't a joke website, there are countless of them out there on the internet if that's what you need. Just Google 'Jokes' its NOT rocket science. I will say it plain and straight too, I don't believe its a mistake when the Jokes are still posted in the blogs - the same people make the same mistake day after day after day and have done for weeks. People gently try to tell them that it is inappropriate, but they ignore it, they have NO interest in anyone else's needs but their own. I think its time the Admins took stronger action to enforce the ruling on Jokes in the blog section, as it is clearly being flouted by those with little or no consideration for others needs, or respect for their wishes. This is a Cancer Support Website - if cancer bothers you, or people discussing it troubles you, I suggest you are in the WRONG place.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I think you are mistaken? I was the original writer of the post and i quote your words 'continues to insist,? after the original post i have not made any other comment? I think the fall out has been between other people. Please get your fact right before you make any accusations or reports to the administrators,

    We are all entitled to an opinion, i made my point what happened after was nothing to do with me,

    Regards Julie

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I would also just like to add that i will no longer be posting on here anymore, which is a shame as i find it most of the time very comforting, but lkike evrything else in life the minority have to spoil it for everyone, i shall continue to be a part of the bowel cancer forum where none of this nonsense goes on

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hear! Hear! Bren.  I also have been finding Zoe's comments offensive.  People should be able to have a discussion or debate without personal insults.  Things have been blown totally out of proportion for whatever reason and I hope it will end now.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    this has escalated unbelievably.  I am not going to try to answer anyone but I am going to post a bit of a platitude that my late beloved Mum wrote in my autograph book aeons ago:

    There is so much good in the worst of us,

    There is so much bad in the best of us,

    It scarcely behoves any of us,

    To criticise the rest of us!

    Amen to that.

    Renée

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    A final last word to Zoe.  You have obviously never posted a joke and you last comments show your ignorance of the process.  For your information, I do wear glasses and the eye problem cannot be corrected with lenses!  You have repeatedly inferred that I am a liar, which I personally find very insulting and from this point on I am chosing not to communicate with you on this subject or any other from this point onwards.  I am posting this on the blogs instead of privately so that everyone is aware that at least from my part this conversation is over.

    I have also reported your aggressive and unecessary tone towards me to admin.