I am having terrible trouble eating at the moment as I feel so guilty that I can eat and Tom can't. I know I must as I do not want to make myself ill.Tom is having a real struggle at the moment getting any food at all down ,even things like mashed potato with loads of butter and milk will not go down.He has never moaned once since the day he was diagnosed but for the first time today he said he was fed up not being able to eat.It is so so hard watching the person you love deperately trying any food he thinks might go down only to see it come back up even after as little as a mouthful.He had a scan last week to see how the tumour is and we are supposed to see the consultant again on June 23rd but I think I will have to ring the hospital tomorrow as this not eating cannot go on until then,hopefully they will be able to suggest some other treatment to get him eating again.
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