Just back from the local hospice with my husband. He has non-small cell lung cancer with spread to lymph nodes, bone and kidney. He goes to the Hospice for acupuncture to help with the pain. Things don't look to good really, problem is he is in denial. I'd like to get involved with the local carers group but he is adamant that I should not. Also, I feel the children need some professional input to help them come to terms…