I am sporting the shortest haircut of my life. My hair continues to drift out, but today a friend complimented me on my new style and it turned out she genuinely liked it and was not simply being encouraging. The plus side is that, as an older woman, I usually have to spend some time checking my chin and upper lip for hairs, but those seem to have gone first. It's the little things that make a difference! I have my scarves and hats ready. My wig is trimmed and good to go, and suddenly I am aware of just how many people have a full head of hair! I find myself noticing women's hairstyles. Perhaps, when my hair grows back, I shall treat myself to a whole new style. Certainly, when my mum saw my choice of wig, she thought it was time to ditch the natural white and go back to a younger style.
Meanwhile, my daughter has posted a photo of her latest wig on Facebook for Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and I have found the courage to share her post, letting everyone know I am having treatment. Like everything, it needs to be talked about, and gradually I am letting people know that I am having cancer treatment, that the local services are fantastic and how well supported I am by the fantastic work of Macmillan and Tenovus.
Especially touching was a photograph my daughter sent of all her inlaws. The latest wig was seaweed and they had all decided to show their support by putting a pile of seaweed on their heads. To know so many people care (and are willing to put a smelly mound of bladderwrack and assorted beasties on their heads) helps carry me through.
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