Cancer cancer cancer flashed in my mind like a neon sign in the local takeaway. Why when everything is going well should I feel so bad?
In 2014 I had stage 4 penile cancer. I had four hours to contemplate the amputation of my penis before it actually happened. But think about it I did not, I just wanted to live. Despite the odds being less than favourable I am here today, having had a penectomy, node dissection, radiotherapy and chemotherapy so really I should be so empowered and full of life.
Not really. But why. Well physical I am doing well but cancer is not all about the physical treatment the psychological damage done to you and yours is huge and that journey is just beginning.
A few months after treatment finished I crashed big time. Work was a chore, fatigue was huge,no social inclination at all,hobbies left to one side and generally felt really bad about myself. I was looking for my old life but could not find it, it was gone.l was lost.
I needed help.
The samaratins I was told,,no I am not suicidal just lost. Try your local cancer centre,, no I have social phobia issues and being as my cancer is so rare and intimate how could I face that.
Through health in mind I am now getting the support I need, I am lucky, it appears the right person has found me wandering around the wilderness and is now helping me on my path to find the new me and so another chapter starts.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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