A plan (well nearly)

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I was called to a meeting on Friday.

I arrived on time having written a list of all the possible questions I could think of.

However, I only met my surgeon and the majority of the questions I had revolved around my chemotherapy. No oncologist was present but I was assured an appointment will be following soon. But to my mind another delay.

Anyway we now have a plan but frustratingly no start date.

There was some good news in that the PET scan didn't show up any further spread so I was mightily relieved about that.

I will have chemo to downstage the cancer in my rectum and liver and to 'mop up' anything not visible by the scans. Then radiotherapy,then rescan and if the chemo/radio has done it's job then surgery on my rectum (which will be quite drastic) and then surgery on my liver (again quite involved). If the chemo/radio hasn't worked...well I'll cross that bridge when I have to.

I was given some excellent advice on diet about eating lots of protein and carbs (I didn't ask if the carbs could be taken in liquid form in the shape of beer). And to do as much exercise as I could as it will all aid recovery.

I have also received good advice about listening to my body. There are times when I feel asolutely exhausted but I have to remind myself that I am ill and not Superman.

Next step appointment with my oncologist.

Thanks for listening

Anonymous
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    good morning..... my first visit so hoping this message ends up somewhere

    im also having a meeting today to hopefully give me a plan for treatment ...... 13 years of battling breast cancer... now have liver ''shadows" 

    the waiting has been awful..... week after week of waiting.... allowing this illness to grow happily in my happy strong healthy body....

    also no oncologist available for me today...... 

    i feel they don't care and are just leaving me to die......

    i feel young and i want to live a bit longer.....

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    The very best wishes for your meeting today.

    You've obviously proved these last 13 years that you're a fighter!

    Many people on this and other forums I've looked at say that the waiting is the worst part.

    All I can say is think positively but hassle them if you don't think you're getting the service you deserve.

    Have you got any contact numbers for the specialist nurse or any other of the team?

    I know that if I haven't heard by tomorrow lunchtime I'll be straight on the phone asking what's going on.