ValS's blog

  • Low sodium and potassium

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi folks, I haven't blogged for several months now, but I keep an eye on how all my Mac friends are getting on.

    But now I'm hoping for some information - my elderly mother-in-law has low sodium and potassium levels (not cancer-related, as far as we know, but she has other medical problems). She has been in hospital for several days, is very confused a lot of the time, has little appetite and is on restricted…

  • I wish ...

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    At this time of year, there are lots of wishes flying around. Most of them are the usual seasonal messages – although perhaps this year there might be a few more wishes for improvements to snowy conditions and travel not being disrupted.
     
    I have a few different things I’m wishing this year:
     
    To those of you spending your first Christmas without a loved one (like me), I hope you can look back and remember…
  • Three months on ...

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Today its three months since my step-dad died.  That's 13 weeks since we held his hand as he reached the end of his journey. So how are we doing? Well, Mum is doing amazingly well. She has even been out to a couple of functions that she would normally have attended with him - and the fact that she coped, and enjoyed it, has given her confidence a real boost. She has a little colour back in her cheeks, and may even have…

  • It's over

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dad passed away on Thursday, at home with us beside him. It was what he wanted, so we're glad about that. We're all very sad, but we didn't want him to suffer any longer. RIP. X

  • In denial?

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    What do you do when a lung cancer patient says he can't understand why his breathing is worse, and why he keeps losing weight, even though he's eating quite well? He knows that there is no more treatment that can be given, but I'm not convinced that he has grasped the fact that his life is limited because the cancer hasn't been cured. He was told that his last Xray was one of the clearest he'd had, and he has interpreted…