This is my life

  • Sunday 31/01/10

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    And so the first month of the year ends. February arrives next, as is traditional, and with it the real beginning of something great.

    Our Wedding Plans!

    Tomorrow, after my first driving lesson, I'm heading to the Loughborough Registry office to tell them that we'll be needing their services on the 24th of April! I can;t wait! I've been trying to get a ring on Deb's finger for 18 months, and finally we have set a date…

  • Thurs 21st Jan 2010

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    FormerMember

    One hell of an emotional week. Finally told Deb about my seeming emotional shutdown. Also asked a mate and Deb's Mac nurse what they thought. Turns out everyone is different, it's a coping mechanism and there's no right way of feeling. All true, all concise answers and all good things to say, but still don't help me that much.

    Deb had her first round of Chemo today. It's the last one they can try and…

  • Sunday 17/01/10

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So... let's see if this proves to be a help of any kind.

    On the 22nd of December last year, my fiancé, Deb, was told that her secondary breast cancer had moved to her lungs, and was terminal. She was told that although they couldn't say for sure, she had maybe 12 months to live. Suddenly, it was the 31st and unlike any other year, when i would be counting down to the new year with a smile, i silently begged 2010…