you were right !!!

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Well what can i say but yes you were all right,Dads funeral went smoothly, we cried lots and later we laughed loads,Dad would have enjoyed the day.                Now we have to start to get back to "normal",hubby and me are finding it a struggle not having to "do" things for Dad and seem to just sit there looking at the walls, so we went back to work yesterday,i found out what wonderful people i work with, there was big banners saying "welcome back Sue" the biggest bouquet of flowers i'v ever seen, they made my first day back lovely.             Then this morning it hit me again!!!!!,i hadnt got to rush back from work to "see" to Dad as i walked up the street tears were rolling down my face and i was thinking "dont really want to go home",but i knew i had too,so home i went,as i walked in, heart in my shoes there ....was another big bouquet of flowers waiting for me...another milestone to get over..its my birthday..and Dads not here, but as the morning gone on more flowers have arrived and text messages galore,so a very mixed day sad that Dads not here to share my day but happy and very very grateful to all the people i have in my life.xxxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie, I'm so glad the day went well.  Happy Birthday hun!  You will have a lot of ups and downs now but it sounds like you've got a great support structure which will help.  It'll take time but you'll get there.  Take care of yourself.  Love and hugs.  Caroline XX

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Happy Birthday!!!! You sound like you are doing ok rolling with the punches so to speak. Just remember to look after yourself and I am so glad it sounds like you ahve a fantastic support network of family and friends around you. Sending lots of love and best wishes.

    Di X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Happy Birthday Suz. One mile stone at a time hun. It will be hard but I know your one strong cookie, and if every you need me you know where i am. Make sure you have a lovely day if anyone deserves it you do. So take it easy. Think lovely thoughts and great memories!

    Tiggs X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie,

    Happy Birthday, Hope you and Hubby go out tonight

    and relax witha few drinks. You both deserve it. All the Best and Good luck. Look after yourself .

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs. May your Dad

    R.I.P. Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie

    Happy Birthday

    Just take one day at a time

    love and hugs to you

    take care love janice xx