Allpeachy's blog

  • Getting involved - new Hertfordshire women's cancer group

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I gave a talk last Thursday, at the launch of a new group which I have been helping to develop from an existing Breast Cancer Support Group.  My part was to illustrate how all cancer patients need support, irrespective of their prognosis or type of cancer, and told my personal story.  It was the first time I had spoken the words Anal Cancer out loud, and I told them about the refusals of support based on the 'good…

  • My personal experience of Anal Cancer

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    In case it's of any help to those newly diagnosed, here's my personal experience - though everyone's is different, and hopefully without my little blip through my ignorance/subsequent neglect in hospital the first week!

    November 2009
     
    I was referred by my GP on a Thursday in May 2007, and saw the Consultant Colorectal Surgeon the following Tuesday.  I was convinced it was IBS or a bad case of piles, I had…
  • What does 'remission' really mean?

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Hi all There's been some discussion recently about the meaning of remission, and Ray's blog about the AA man has made me think too about it. Like Ray, I have also been in 'remission' for coming up for 15 months. But I have a problem with that word, rather loosely used in public circles. My own oncologist doesn't use it, he says he is pleased that currently there is 'No Evidence of Disease' (NED as it is known). Remission…
  • A poem 'Journeywoman' - travelling through the unknown landscape

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    I would like to share with you a wonderful poem, by an equally wonderful lady who has been fighting bowel cancer and secondaries for the last 6 years. JOURNEYWOMAN I hadn't planned to go travelling when - without warning - they sent me on a journey to a land with no maps. Sometimes I go on foot, climbing slow stairs to the top of towers. On other days I find myself blurring through…
  • The importance of correct punctuation and meaning in written communication ...

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    I thought this might tickle you, especially tongue in cheek following a recent spate of misunderstandings in the written word! Dear John: I want a man who knows what love is all about. You are generous, kind, thoughtful. People who are not like you admit to being useless and inferior. You have ruined me for other men. I yearn for you. I have no feelings whatsoever when we're apart. I can be forever happy--will you let…