mum is gone.

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FormerMember

29 Jul 2011

so mum finally stopped fighting on wednesday 27th july at 9pm. still feel so numb inside and have no clue how else i feel. im sure once the fruneral is over i will have more idea of how i feel i think but not too sure on that. just to find something bright to wear now as it what mum wanted so gotta do that and then wait till wednesday really. going to see her in the morning so will se how she is now they have sorted her out and she is all nice. x

FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hi Steph,

Your friends are here for you when you need or want us. Your Mum is at rest and out of pain, RIP to your Mum - and condolences.

You proved your love and care when it mattered- she knew she was loved. Mean in a nice way find something Bright to wear and have a good funeral that celebrates her life !!

Love and Hugs mate xxx

John xx
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

So very sorry to hear about your Mum.BIG HUG!!!!!
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hi Steph, I'm so sorry to read that your mum has passed away. May she rest in peace. Love and hugs Caroline XX
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Dear Steph,

So very sorry to hear your sad news. You may not agree with me on this, but I believe the "numbness" is all part of our brain's plan to "keep us going" for want of a better way to put it. Right now it is better that you feel numb and this may last days, or even weeks, but it is something most of us who have lost a loved one feel at the beginning.

Concentrate on doing only the things you have to - like finding something bright to wear to your Mum's funeral, because it what she wanted - and take each day as it comes. We are all different and all grieve differently too. There are no "rights" or "wrongs" when your much loved Mum has died and I know how I felt when I lost my Mums too.

You are stronger than you feel right now Steph and my thoughts are with you at this time. Your "Mac-family" are always here for you! Take care of yourself and may your Mum rest in peace.

Love and hugs, Rosemary x x x
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

So sorry to hear this Steph - sending you huge hugs - you know where we all are xxx
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