Lost my sister unexpectedly

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Had a sad phone call on 2nd September to tell me one of my sisters had died. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on 28th July but decided not to tell anyone until she knew how to but she was admitted to hospital on 25th August so none of us knew until it was over. Great shock, went to the funeral last Monday and, as funerals go, it was quiet and dignified. Seems strange to think I can't just pick up the phone anymore. Glad it was quick for her and her treatment in hospital was, apparently, second to none.Jill was 64 and when you are young, that seems such a long life but when you edge towards that yourself, you realise, erm..... want lots more please!

Madiso
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    sorry for your loss Sheila and agree with your comments about wanting "lots more please".

    Peace be the journey xx

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    Sorry to hear bout your loss Sheila. I lost my sisiter on Christmas day last year and it really hurts but I remember the good times we had together when we were kids and later on when we were adults and it helps somehow to deaden the pain.

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    Sheila, Your pain and grief will be hard to live with but hang on to all those wonderful memories, afterall, this is why she was your lovely sister!  

    Cherryl

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    Sheila, sorry for your loss. I remember thinking how old that was when I was young, but like you say the nearer you get the younger it seems.  

    Take care of yourself

    Lynda

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    Sheila

    So sorry to hear of your loss.

    Dave