The rest of monday was a daze. We had to go and tell my parents, my siblings and my in laws,which wasn't easy. Even now, writing this is hard cos it makes me think of it over again. We decided to keep the kids(13 and 16) in the dark until after Xmas as it wouldn't do any good to spoil it for them. By the wednesday, the clinical nurse specialist from our local hopsital contacted us and said the MDT team had gone through…