after the comment that was made to me on the jokes blog today , i feel its my time to bow out . i shall not be writting on what now anymore ..for the fear of upsetting anyone that doesn't want to read about cancer and the feelings it causes.
normally i write my blogs late at night when i can't sleep and these fears haunt me so i write it down and the in last few weeks as in the past year i have been given immense support , invaluable in fact .but i now know my blogs cause offence to some people who come on hear to be cheered up. lol i'm not a miserable person , i don't walk around all woe is me ..and if i want a laugh i will just spend time around my children who have me cracking up , after all laughter is the best medicine. but if i've needed somewhere to get support and to be around people who ( i thought ) understood me then i come on here .during my remission i stopped using what now and alot of my friends went to facebook now i know why.
jill i hope what now continues to fill you with laughter and i'm sorry if i offended you in any way . and to very good friends who have supported me for the last few weeks and longer i'm sorry that i will be losing your kinds words.
FormerMember
Not sure what the comment was, but we all have different needs. At the moment you need support and there are lots of people on here who do care as Debs said and who will support and listen, me for one.
Don't remove yourself from the site please. PM if you would like.
I havnt read the blog that has made you make this decision and I dont intend to! Its a real shame that you have been made to make the decision to not use What Now, but I say we are all not the same. Dont you think you always get one to spoil things in life! Dont let one bad apple stop you from getting the support you need, you seem like a very strong person going through a very very tough time, you deserve alot of respect! Take care Ruthxx
Sammie, please don't leave, we want to help and support you through this difficult time, just like you've helped and supported us when the going got tough.
There will always be people who come on here for a laugh to cheer themselves up when they have a difficult day, but there will also be people who need to offload or it feels like their head will explode. While you are going through this truly awful time I want to do all I can to help, even if its only sending you a hug so you know I care.
i dont know what happened but dont let one comment put you off, debs is rigfht sometimes what we write doesnt come across right and can be taken the wrong way.
