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Well my Dad was devestated when i got cancer he cried so much bless him now im feeling much better and he goes n collapses.  He had a quad heart opp five weeks ago n then on Fri he collapses, they operated there n then and his aorta burst flooding his body with blood.  they put  stainless steel in his body.  Yesterday he looked alot better and despite a bandage that i saw was bloody and alot of bruising caused by what me n him call the vampire blood taker he asked for chocolate!  Bless.

 I keep complaing too many visitors at next patients bed 7!!! cmon.  They left him in corridor unattended waiting for a scan for an hr grrr and is there any way they can find a vein without bruising the whole of his arm?  If someone did that to you in the street they would be had up for assult.  Also his pillow was soaked in blood.

I may of course be avoiding my sorrow at seeing him so ill, at the thought of loosing my best friend and the unconditional love i get from him.  I feel devestated n work holds no interest for me.  I just want to be at the hospital playing with the machines with him i said to him bring your handbag wee bag n he said it doesnt match my outfit lol.

xxxxx Ruth

Hes talking of us going to Wales again when he is better.  Bless him.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I hope he gets better soonest xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh Ruth I heard the news - so sorry.  Fingers crossed he makes a speedy recovery. xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ruth

    Sorry to hear about your dad I hope he soon feels better, My mother was the 3rd woman in the country to have that op55yrs ago in her case it was only partialy succesful as they discovered half her heart hadn't grown since she was a baby  but she lived10 very good years after it one of the things that was noticable though was that she bruised very easy so it might be a side affect of the condition.

    Things have come along since then and now hopefully he will lead a normal life and soon be going on that trip to wales

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    aww ruth im so sorry to hear about your dad and how hes been treated im shocked! i hope he makes a full recover soon so you two can go off to wales and have a lovely time! big hugs to you both neither of you deserve this heart break, stay strong for him like i know you can and he'l get better. i'l keep praying for you two xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ruth, hope your Dad is better soon and you get your trip to wales.

    Love Rosie