There comes a point when people and counsellors think you should be over a bereavement or adjusted or have moved on. Typically I think it comes around the 5th or 6month mark.In truth and in reality that is when its just hiiting home because it is the paralysing reality of our new situations that we dont want that we have to face everyday. I didnt lose my husband 5 months ago that implies he popped out and went somewhere and will shortly be back .I never misplaced him. He died in front of my eyes in our bed...unless its happened to you then you could never understand.One thing about life thats certain ..is it certainly isnt fair and death is very final
