The grieving

Hi Poppyanne,

You have my deepest sympathy,at the loss in such a short space of time of two of the People you loved

the most. I cant begin to understand how you managed to cope,with such loss and sadness. No point in telling you that as time goes on things will get easier. They wont,you will have to be strong. You will find a lot of friends on this sight who have gone through the same thing. We are here to help as much as we can to talk to try and understand how you feel. A place where you can come to when your feeling low. There will always be someone here to talk to. All the Best. May your Paul and your Dad

Rest in Peace.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

hi poppyanne, i never thought id be a widow at 34 ,its such a cruel world ,i lost my hubby in march and i still feel very much as you do ,i can only hope it will get better with time for us both,

im not sure what i can say to help you ,but i know exactly how your feeling ,and im here if you need me, plz feel free to pm me if you want to hugs jenni xxxx

Hi Poppyanna

I lost my partner in sept last year ,i know what you are feeling ,i cant block it out of my head the bad times,it destroys your memory of the good times ,my partner was 50 when he died ,i cared for him ,and watch him go to nothing ,how cruel this disease is taking people like that. I never expected to be on my own at 47 ,all our future as been robbed by this disease take care love sharon x  

Hi Poppyanna

My husband died last November aged 57.  I thought I was to young to be widowed at 58 but life can be cruel and since coming on here and the Merry Widows website I realise that we are not alone.  All of this doesn't help though but be reassured that you can post on here and you will always receive love and hugs.

Take care love Stacey xx

Hi Poppyanna I too lost my husband after 18 months fighting Leukaemia. He died in Feb only 5 months ago but it feels like a lifetime ago. I am assured that it will get easier only I don't know when.

Thinking of you

Love Teri