Phil54x2's blog

  • The Devestation

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thank you everyone who commented on my first two bloggs.

     

    My life has just become a nightmare as I lost my dear wife Liz on Monday afternoon19th October.

    I lay in bed with her for 48 hours, only moving to allow nurses to do their marvelous work and change her driver,

    She seemed to deteriorate rapidly over the previous weekend as the reallity started to hit home I became so selfishly upset.....

    I held her head on…

  • Past the deadline

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    prognosis 6 to 10 weeks....14 weeks ago.

    We have our own business, lots of hard work, a partnership business of over 20 years, its been a long and somewhat pointless struggle.....

    Liz still comes to work, to manage her position as practice manager she is the up-front face with a smile.....its still there, but oh so much pain behind it.

    She would rather be at work than at home, although her steroidel moon face and nipped…

  • beating the deadline

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    After 18 months of this daily struggle, my wife is now in the unknown....literaly.!

    Treatment is now finished......appart from pain releif, and steroids..

    Her Kidney Cancer mets have taken nearly all of her two lungs.

    At the last Clinic, and after a chest x-ray ...I was told of her fast failing lungs.

    Liz left the room as she always has, and left me to get the results....

    The picture on the computer screen showing…