THE START OF OUR NEW LIFE

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Our new life started one day in June 2011, when my husband decided to visit his doctor about night sweats and a slight but constant cough. He was sent for a chest x-ray and by the Monday of the next week we were summoned to the surgery and told there was a shadow on his right lung. An appointment would be made to see a Consultant.

 Our planned Summer Holiday was put on hold and we spent the next 3 weeks on odd days out visiting the local Hospital for a CT Scan, a Pet Scan and a Biopsy. Photographs of Summer Holidays 2011 were taken of a mobile Pet SCanner, Nurse included.  The next time we had a Consultants appointment we were told that my husband had a large mass in his right lung, close to his heart.

 Cheomtherapy was offered to reduce the size and then if possible Surgery would follow.

My husband has had 3 Chemotherapy treatments, and is now in hospital having dehydrated and he is being treated for C-Diff. He has been very poorly.

Dear God is it not enough being treated for Lung Cancer without the added problems of infections too!

Before that day in June 2011, he seemed fit and healthy and happy. We could cope with the night sweats, and the cough became the norm, but his wife insisted that he ought to have it checked out.

Our life is on hold, treatment will begin again when he is fit enough. Roll on life after treatment!!

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Respect,

    It was good to talk to you the other night, and you have certainly come to the right place for help and support.

    We've all got our fingers crossed for you and hubby. You will need to stay strong for hubby, so look after yourself.

    Dogs are wonderful companions and help to bring some sense of normality to any situation.

    Good luck at the hospital and let us know how it went, we are always here for you.

    Love and hugs

    Colin xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Respect

    Hope things improve for you and hubby.  It is indeed dreadful when coping with cancer you are faced with other complications.

    We are all here for you anytime you need some love and support.

    Stay strong.

    Much love,

    Nin xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Just a quick note as I am supposed to be working, couldn't stop myself from looking ! Thank you so very much you lovely people out there! I feel very selfish at the moment, we all have problems. I have been holding back tears etc for a long time, you are succeeding in making me cry, but its such a relief! I can feel that support, it is just simply amazing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.  Hugs to everyone, and yes  the sun is shining today. It will be a good day after all. xxxxxx 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Respect,

    I have finger etc crossed for your husband.

    I wish England would adopt the same as other European countries and make poeple undergoing treatments should be made toshower with a betadine solution. I know being too clean can sometimes be detrimental, but honestly when it comes to hospitals isn't that when extreme cleanliness is needed????

    All the best to you both and I am wishing a good outcome for you.

    Helen xxx