When to see my mum in hospital today, she’s going downhill fast, she was very angry with me today, called me a bitch and a liar, and told me i was stopping my brother and sister from visiting her. She got so upset she wet herself so i had to leave.
Doc told me not to take it personal it just the drugs talking. It still hurts. She would even say she loved me when i left.
Then this evening at 7.30 the nurse called me mum had been asking for me to go up, so me and my sister went up.
Mum wanted to tell us she loved us and that she was giving up she wouldn’t be here in the morning, and could i tell my brother she loved him.
We all just sat there crying and holding each other, my heart broke.
I will be surprised if she is still with us in the morning.
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